Most men can separate sex from love.
Most women can’t.
I recently watched Nicholas Cage’s Lord of War. I’d bumped into it before, but I didn’t pay attention until my Sailor recommended it. I’ll watch just about anything he tells me to – I trust his taste. After all, he’s with me *cheeky grin*
One of my favourite lines in the movie is when his wife asks him to stop doing what he does because they’ve made enough money.
Nick: It’s not about the money.
Trophy wife: Why then?
Nick: Because I’m good at it.
I can’t explain the brilliance of that line without a spoiler alert, so just watch it. Another cool thing about the movie is that Nick does despicable things, but you end up defending him. You feel it’s not his fault.
One of the things he does is cheat. Many, many, many times.
I don’t know why men – or women – choose to be unfaithful. I always thought it’s about greener grass, or maybe just grass. Continue reading